Monday 2 August 2010

Starting again is always hard!

When you marry I'm sure you never think this is only a short term arrangement!! I had enjoyed my social life and met someone I thought I was going to be with for the rest of my life!! After 12 happy years I found out that my husband was having an affair and I decided to end our marriage because he had no remorse and didn't seem to want to stay despite what I said! Three and a half yrs on and I think I've finally cracked this single parent lark! Some people might think this is a long time, and others might think I should have been "over it" by now....well everyone is different and I might just be a slow learner!!

I managed all of the finances that I thought were going to be impossible....and I have managed to keep my sanity despite the fact that I felt I was going to lose it at times!

I am going to write about how I felt and some of the things I have done to manage this whole process and I hope that it helps someone along their road of divorce and seperation. It is hard and I will try to be as honest as possible but you can do it....so let me help in whatever way I can!